Thursday, December 9, 2010

Faking Orgasms

I used to fake orgasms. All the time.

The bedroom is not the only place we do it. We do it in our business too. Sometimes it's awkward to look into someone's eyes and tell them that you're not fully satisfied. Often it's easier to be inauthentic and pretend that you are.

Are you clear about what you like when it comes to business relationships?
Do you have the courage to ask for what want?
Do you tell people how they can best serve you?
Do you derive immense pleasure in your work environment?
Or...are you just faking it?

Here's my invitation: Tell people how they can tap into your badass strengths and passions. Tell people how they can support you in being more efficient. Tell people how they can make you feel like a valued part of the team. Tell people how you'd like to be treated when things get stressful at work.

Once you take a deep breath and express your desires, you can actually create incredible chemistry with the people you work with. Imagine an environment where the interactions with your partners, vendors, boss and/or employees brought you tremendous pleasure and put an orgasmic smile on your face.

Don't you prefer a real orgasm over a fake one, anyways? ;)

1 comment:

  1. Love It!! You Always Bring It Hun!! Being Real can't get any more Authentic than this!!! Great perspective, thanks.

    Oh keep it real too!!
    xxoxo

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